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First of all, the main task of the site is to help you find family happiness. And for this we provide a platform with a ready-made database of girls who are also interested in fixing your problem. If your goal is to build strong and reliable relationships, then we are pleased to provide you with our services. In order to start using the service, you need to go through a small registration, but we'll talk about this later.
If you would like a couple of fleeting dating with ukrainian girls, then it’s better to look for another place to meet such goals. Of course, we are not entitled to evaluate your needs, but we consider it necessary to give a couple of arguments in favor of marriage.
The mystery is that both men and women have romantic feelings not for everyone they meet, but only for someone with whom they are already at least a little in love. Before a person falls in love, he is guided not by romance, but by pragmatism. Can a man experience something like love while looking at profiles of unfamiliar girls? Of course not, they are all to him - completely indifferent as individuals, since their personalities are unknown to him, and the only thing that can be of any interest to him is their body. Therefore, the first thing such a man does, having met on a dating site, he finds out how old they are is and whether she agrees to have sex. For some reason this offends. She doesn’t need disposable relationship, she hopes to evaluate her personality. But what is the personality on dating sites? Many people don’t even try to find this out.
At the same time, a woman is just as indifferent to the host of Vit-Mit, whose personalities she has no idea about, and the only significant difference that she can somehow appreciate is their earnings. Therefore, all she is trying to find out from hundreds of men who have written to her is how much they earn and how generous they are. Such information helps to select several from Vit-Mit, for correspondence and meeting with whom it is not too unfortunate to waste time.
Thus, the selection on dating sites does not follow the principle of those qualities that are priority for marriage and love, but those qualities that are priority for meeting an indifferent, alien person. If a woman is completely indifferent to a man, he is interested in her body, not her. If a man is completely indifferent to a woman, she is interested in his wallet, not him. This is the minimum that people find out for themselves when it comes to meeting an unnecessary (!) Person.
But feelings between people arise on a completely different basis. No man will fall in love with a woman just because she is ready for sex. No woman will fall in love with a man just because he is ready to pay for dinner at a restaurant. While they are single, they can meet with such, but for love to appear and want to get married, each of them needs a different one. They need mutual sympathy, intellectual coincidence, understanding, emotional stimulus, and a whole series of things that can be described as "interest in the individual." And if such an interest happens, for a man no obligation sex will not matter much, it will only be enough for a woman to be pretty in his opinion, and for a woman it will not matter “wallet”, it will only be enough for a man to earn money normally in her opinion, and the greater the interest in the individual, the lower the criticality in assessing the appearance of a woman and the earnings of a man, that is, it has less and less significance.
A woman who immediately sends anyone who earns as much as she does on a dating site will easily be carried away by a man who will earn less than her, but will be of interest to her. A man who does not view peer profiles on a dating site will easily get carried away by a woman older than herself if she is interested in him.
But interest in a person does not arise from reading a standard questionnaire, interest can arise only in the process of communication, and informal communication is necessary in order for personal qualities and their coincidences to appear. And here the situation with acquaintances, unfortunately, falls into a vicious circle. To get interested, you need to get acquainted, and to get acquainted, you need to get interested. In the meantime, there is no interest; one has to make a selection according to pragmatic and even cynical parameters.
And then this vicious circle rule works against people. The more men meet women who are looking for a wallet on dating sites, the more they become interested in the quality of no obligation sex. If men are considered as buyers, they begin to find fault with the product. Well, women are the opposite. Since men are constantly asking the no obligation sex, they begin to set a price for it.